Something I never thought to ask. What’s the difference between a coffin and a casket? Up until recently I always thought it was just a name and that American’s called it one thing while we called it another. But no, I was completely wrong.
A casket is rectangular whereas a coffin has a wider section for the shoulders and tapers down toward the feet. That’s it… But let’s take a look at some other interesting things about both coffins and caskets.
Did you know that in most cases, the shiny handles are not for supporting any weight? They’re usually made from plastic as they need to be combustable for the cremator. The Daisybox we use has hessian handles that can actually hold weight and being a natural product, will break down under ground and is also obviously combustable.
So what can a coffin or casket be made of? In terms of cremation, anything combustable really. Ideally you wouldn’t use plastic and products with PVC are definitely not allowed to be cremated. Any untreated timber is usually ok and of course cardboard. While we’re not a fan (due to the number of chemicals used in the production), MDF is a popular cheap alternative to timber.
Can I make my own casket? Yes, you sure can… if you have the skills that is (well, eve if you don’t have the skills). I know, 100% that I couldn’t make a coffin to save myself. A casket, maybe… but it’d be really ugly. If you have the skills, why not give it a go? Northwoods Casket Company in Wisconsin, USA have some really helpful info for those wanting to give it a go. The measurements are imperial (inches not mm), but they have a wealth of knowledge on their website – https://www.northwoodscasket.com/build-your-own-casket .
You might not realise this, however you don’t even need a casket or a coffin. While the cremator needs something solid, it could be as simple as a wooden trundle. If you would prefer to be wrapped simply in a lovely fabric shroud, it can definitely happen for you. It can be quite healing for loved ones to spend some time with the body of the deceased, washing, dressing and wrapping in a shroud. A simple timber trundle can also make it easier than lifting into a box.
Well, now you know the difference between a coffin and a casket. The main point of this post is to let you know that you can pretty much do what you want. We started making enquiries when Mum was approaching the end and got a spiel from one funeral home about only using “industry standard” caskets… If a funeral director says something isn’t allowed, don’t be afraid to question that. There is no “industry standard” casket, as we were told and is simply their preference not to work outside a set of rules they’ve imposed on themselves.
Since starting Rest, we have made connections with a number of doulas, end of life support persons and funeral guides that do offer unique funeral services like ours. You might need to dig a little, but they’re out there. People that listen to you, hear what you want to achieve at this tough time. All I can say is you’ll be surprised at what is possible and what we are capable when it comes to this final journey for our loved ones.
