Deep in an oak and birch filled forest, behind the tiny hamlet of Bötersheim in Germany’s north, we walked in search of one particular tree. A menagerie of bird song filled the dense wood as we walked. Basic, but well worn dirt and gravel pathways wound their way between the ancient trees and a wide variety of mushrooms stood their ground on those no longer alive. Dark, but with enough light filtering through the bright green canopy to make our way, it was hard to believe this was in essence, a cemetery. No flat lawns, no protruding headstones… no flowers.
The Bestattungswald (burial forest) in Bötersheim is a seemingly undisturbed woodland under the management of the local council in the area, complete with Ranger that maintains this ecological wonder. With a dedicated area for flowers and remembrance near the entry to the forest, the natural beauty within is maintained.
The tree we were in search of belongs to my cousin and a group of friends. It is called a family or friendship tree, where up to twelve can have their ashes buried. For those wanting a plot alone, a community tree can be chosen. The trees are numbered and shown on the nature park map and brass plaques provide the burial details.
Funeral services within the Bestattungswald can be a beautiful affair, with simple yet tasteful ceremonial spaces dotted throughout the forest, furniture carved from local oak blending with the surrounds.
I see this as such a great way to preserve nature into the future while providing space to remember our dead, and would love to see more options like this back home in Australia, particularly the Southern Downs, where our business is located.
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